Sometimes you have a great thing going...and life seems to be all on track...
It all seems worth living for and you dont need a "happiness project" to help to tie you over to be a happy human being whom other people like to be around..
And then, as if out of nowhere, somebody makes a comment.....sometimes an innocent comment...but it gets taken the wrong way...or the right way sometimes???!!! ..... and things go wrong... completely wrong...
And all of a sudden it has a ripple effect and the whole crowd around gets affected by it..the mood suddenly drops...the cookie crumbles and voila - life is not that great anymore - all of a sudden ??!!!
Tonight was one of those nights....Last night was one of those too...
Maybe you need those incidents sometimes...because here I am... 1 am in the morning - wondering why we sometimes make each other so unhappy..... had it not happened, I would have not thought so long and hard about what is really important in life..... and how we let our things and own ideas and ideals get in the way of precious, personal relationships...
I wish I can fix everything in a day...but some of it takes time...and only on one of the "lows"...you realize..that some things you better pay attention to...or it will be too late ..?! My kids are growing up..... and time with them are precious. We can not control how they react and respond....and it is very easy losing them somewhere inbetween.....
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