To tell or not to tell...

How do you tell a friend the truth?

What people say and what people think and what you personally think.....could so easily be discussed behind someone's back...but few have the guts to say it out loud.

Or do they have the guts, but they feel the pain of what it would feel like telling your friend the truth...and then rather avoid telling...because it is much nicer to not have any uncomfortable not-nice-to-hear-truths that could potentially come inbetween a precious friendship.

I hate that - thinking something and not sharing that thought...

But then again - if it is a true friend, they should know your intention, know that you care and know that you do this for them..

I would like my friends to tell.... I will just tell...and hope for the best.

Things happen....

Sometimes you do everything possible for somebody......and then you later learn that you have actually caused some sadness and frustration to that person without even knowing that...

And that has happened to me.

Without knowing...and without meaning to...

And sometimes things change when that happen and you are not quite sure how that would affect the relationship going forward.

I dont want anything to change...but somehow that little voice in me tells me it did.

And that makes me sad.