How do you tell a friend the truth?
What people say and what people think and what you personally think.....could so easily be discussed behind someone's back...but few have the guts to say it out loud.
Or do they have the guts, but they feel the pain of what it would feel like telling your friend the truth...and then rather avoid telling...because it is much nicer to not have any uncomfortable not-nice-to-hear-truths that could potentially come inbetween a precious friendship.
I hate that - thinking something and not sharing that thought...
But then again - if it is a true friend, they should know your intention, know that you care and know that you do this for them..
I would like my friends to tell.... I will just tell...and hope for the best.